Any seasoned pick up artists realises that they are never going to get a 100% hit rate. At best you might get a 20% hit rate but the chances are it will be less than that. Even so, achieving a hit rate of 10% will take a lot of practice and the application of a number of approaches and methods to secure evenings with the hottest women in town!
The thing is, if you are a complete amateur pick up artist, your hit rate will be minuscule and as a result, your confidence will be shot to pieces well before you hit first base. This is why when you are starting out that you must set your targets low and pack your sales funnel high!
The concept of a sales funnel is simple – you literally put your prospects in the top and hope that some come out the bottom in the form of sales – just like they do in sales and marketing. You have to treat yourself as a product and go through the sales process too!
To be a successful pick up artist, you must realise the first secret of success and that is to become a valuable goal for a woman – you must be a product they want. Your job is not to chase women, your goal is to get women working to spend time with you. That is where the success lies.
However, if you are going to be successful you are going to need to practice your tactics and methods until you have them nailed. To do this you need to practice on lots and lots of chicks. Cram your sales funnel high and hope a few chicks pop out the other end as a first base sale of a home run (high five!).
This requires confidence but it also requires a plan, especially if you are a newbie pick up artist. The plan starts with you only trying to talk to strangers so you can perfect the opening.
You do not need a long list of cheesy pick up lines – that is a flawed approach. Pick up lines merely serve to let the girl know you are looking for something (them) and that you are prepared to work for it. Therefore, you have put yourself in a subservient position – you have put yourself in the weakest starting position you can!
What you need to do with your sales funnel is not even try and pick up a girl, just learn how to start a conversation that doesn’t have them running for the exit screaming ‘stalker’. As time goes by, your confidence with strangers will build and then you can start working on more aspects of your game. In time, you will be able to improve your game so that your conversion rate is higher but as a beginner, you must understand that it is the quantity of contacts you make that will build your skills and techniques.
For more advice on how to become a better pick up artist, why not take a look at Max Breen’s dedicated website at http://pick-up-artist-secrets.com where Max blogs about tips and techniques for success with the ladies!
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